Again with the friendship and why do we or should we pursue that avenue? Here is why if you remember from you biology courses or science courses hopefully you remember the study of trees. When you look at the study of trees you the see age and history of life in there circles of history. I know I may not be explaining that correctly but the fact is there is history in the life of the tree and the life of your friends that cannot nor should it be debated over your lifetime. Now we all know we didn't go to school with 300 plus people in our class. We also know what whether we liked everybody or not we still new everybody in a small town enivorment.
Now yes this can be broken down to big schools as welll as you get micro with your relationships. Now getting back to the history. Think about when you did x or y with this person and it nothing but fun. Also think about it when it wasn't so fun. Weigh it out and see why did it end. Did it end because you got busy? Or they got busy or things just changed? I think all of the above is lazy and I think if I give you a call and you don't return it after 10 plus years of knowing each other that is said. I should take call from anyone I have known for that many years let alone a friend and let alone they called me. I should be asking myself why do I not want to talk to t hem.. You don't have to there is no requirement to do so.
It just makes you look bad to not do so and you know you may have missed an opportunity to re-engage with your network of friends. I think that is a mistake but look at the facts and we all know them how many people really engage with their past peers. They think they have moved on found new friends, built new lives and that is all good but did you really need to ditch the past for the future?
You think about it and you decide, either answer will be correct in your lifestyle I' m sure.
Do you think if there was more contact you might have bigger reunions? Nice correleations. Also remember one contact is still good, but don't cut if off entirely. I know everyone is always debating things, be patient.
I just jumped into a weird font and will need to bail as I cannot correct it for tonight.
Let's keep the dialouge going and if there are only 5 followers, I wonder why there are not 100 plus as we all lived in a small town or a small faction of society. Reach out and let's let it grown
Now yes this can be broken down to big schools as welll as you get micro with your relationships. Now getting back to the history. Think about when you did x or y with this person and it nothing but fun. Also think about it when it wasn't so fun. Weigh it out and see why did it end. Did it end because you got busy? Or they got busy or things just changed? I think all of the above is lazy and I think if I give you a call and you don't return it after 10 plus years of knowing each other that is said. I should take call from anyone I have known for that many years let alone a friend and let alone they called me. I should be asking myself why do I not want to talk to t hem.. You don't have to there is no requirement to do so.
It just makes you look bad to not do so and you know you may have missed an opportunity to re-engage with your network of friends. I think that is a mistake but look at the facts and we all know them how many people really engage with their past peers. They think they have moved on found new friends, built new lives and that is all good but did you really need to ditch the past for the future?
You think about it and you decide, either answer will be correct in your lifestyle I' m sure.
Do you think if there was more contact you might have bigger reunions? Nice correleations. Also remember one contact is still good, but don't cut if off entirely. I know everyone
I just jumped into a weird font and will need to bail as I cannot correct it for tonight.
Let's keep the dialouge going and if there are only 5 followers, I wonder why there are not 100 plus as we all lived in a small town or a small faction of society. Reach out and let's let it grown
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